Dear Blogger

Dear Blogger,

I enjoy reading your blog. Sometimes you make me think. Sometimes you make me laugh. Sometimes you give me a glimpse of a totally different lifestyle. Sometimes I learn something from you. Sometimes I just enjoy reading about how someone else juggles work, family, fitness, food, etc.

I know that many bloggers monitor the statistics on their sites. I learned from Katy Widrick that it’s better for you if I read your posts directly on your site rather than in Google Reader. I know that the bloggers I follow enjoy getting comments (I do too!) and I usually will leave a comment if I have something to say about (or in response to) your post.

But (and here’s why this is in my “venting” category), I am busy. I don’t have a lot of free time. I enjoy spending time reading and commenting on blogs, but I don’t like to waste time waiting for your blog page to load with all of its fancy plug-ins and add-ons and (seriously?) pop-ups. I will run away (“back” or “x”) if I can’t load your page quickly and I won’t come back if you have pop-up ads–they just scare me from a virus/malware standpoint.

Now for those comments. If you want comments, please make it easy for readers to leave comments. First, make it easy to find the comment box. If it’s not on the same page as your post, check the font size on the “comment” link, especially if you welcome visually challenged readers like me. 🙂

If you really need to weed out spam comments, test out the system that you are using. I think there must be some incompatibility between my computer (or browser, IE7) and some of the Blogger captcha plug-ins, because sometimes I have to hit “post” three times before a captcha code will show up. I will accept that this is a problem on my end and keep clicking, but I encourage you to view your blog as an external reader and try leaving a comment to make sure the process runs smoothly.

I also have learned (the hard way, of course) that sometimes logging in through OpenID will erase my comment. So, when I remember this issue, I write a comment, copy, log in, paste into the now-blank reply box, and then submit.  Again, this might be an issue between OpenID and WordPress, but it doesn’t happen on every blog. If I am really pressed for time, I may select “anonymous” although I will leave my name, so just know that it’s nothing personal and I’m not hiding anything.

I am new to blogging, but I want to point out some cool features of WordPress that make my own comment review process go pretty smoothly. I have my comments set up to require my approval before publishing. I probably will change this eventually, but I am comfortable having it this way for now. That said, WordPress lets me approve a commenter, so that when the same person leaves another comment (on the same or different post), it will publish automatically. Also, WordPress has a built-in akismet program that seems to do a good job of identifying spam, although sometimes it tags non-spam as spam (this is easily rectified). Maybe when my blog is older spam will be more of a problem, but for now the basic WordPress tools are all I need.

What about you–do you have any pet peeves about blogs?

Aside from content, what makes you like or dislike a blog?

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Breathing Patterns For Running

When I first started running, one of the books I devoured was The Complete Book of Running For Women by Claire Kowalchik.

One of the tips that has stuck with me over the years relates to different breathing patterns for running, and how to monitor and control breathing to monitor and control pace.  Continue reading

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Hotel Gym Mix & Match Workout

A family overnight trip for my son’s wrestling tournament meant a Saturday morning in a hotel gym. I did an awesome 7+ mile run Friday morning, but since I was going to spend the day sitting in an arena, I wanted to get some cardio in. I decided to do a 30 minute elliptical workout and then a free weights routine.

Since I usually workout in my basement, I enjoy getting to use fancy machines in hotel gyms, but the downside is not knowing what I’m getting into with unfamiliar equipment.  I selected a “random” workout at level 4. It probably was harder than I needed after a 7 mile run, but it got the sweat dripping and the endorphins flowing.  The machine had a built-in TV and a built-in fan that I turned on for the last 10 minutes. I couldn’t find a screen that showed the workout “profile” (what incline I was on, what was coming up), but I did find this screen at the end: 

 

I have no idea what the “WtLoss Training” and “Cardio Training” numbers mean, or how “Stride Length” correlates with the “Strides Per Minute” I usually monitor. 

The program did not give me a cool down, so I got on a treadmill and walked for 5 minutes before heading to the free weights area.

Since I’ve been doing my Bob Harper Pure Burn Super Strength DVD since January, I had to dust off some mental cobwebs to remember my free weights superset routine. This is what I came up with:

  • dead lifts/overhead press/push-ups
  • plie squats/tricep dips
  • lunges/bicep curls
  • chest flies/crunches
  • squats

Yes, I skipped lateral raises, but they get overdone with Bob Harper!

I did 3 sets of each move, with 15 reps for each set.  For most of the segments I paused between the 2nd and 3rd sets to grab a sip of water .

After that, I tried out the stretching “machine:”

The tilting “chair” and handle bars really did seem to give the stretches an extra oomph.

Did I forget any of your “must do” moves in my free weights routine?

Have you ever tried the stretching machine?

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Back In Action

My light week got even lighter when I came down with a sore throat on Tuesday. It kept me from getting much sleep on Tuesday night, so when my alarm went off @ 5:00 on Wednesday I decided that my body needed more rest more than it needed a workout.

 When my alarm went off @ 6:00 I felt more rested, and craved the stretches of the “Twists” program on my Rodney Yee A.M. Yoga For Your Week DVD.  Since I usually workout until 6:30, I still had time in my morning schedule to squeeze it in. Aaahhhh.

Yesterday at work my throat still felt scratchy, but my energy level was better than it was on Tuesday. I figured that I would be able to get my workouts back on track by doing weights today and running Friday. Last night I went to bed early (actually, on time, but earlier than I have been lately), and slept pretty well all night.

When my alarm went off @ 5:00 today I was ready to get up, and ready to take on the full-length, 65 min program on my Bob Harper Pure Burn Super Strength DVD.

The last time I did this workout I was so psyched because I finally had made it through the killer plank sequence at the end, but that was a week ago. I wondered if I would be able to complete those moves again, but I started the workout with “no expectations” (as Beth Shaw advises on my YogaFit tape).

Beth Shaw's Yogafit [VHS]

Some of the moves were more challenging than they had been last week, but I made it to the end, including the bitter end with the “knee-to-elbow” plank moves. Yay!

I ended my workout with stretching and foam rolling, and am happy to be back in action.

Do you have a hard time getting back to your workouts after being sick, or are you anxious to get back to it?

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My Valentine To Myself

This is the 44th Valentine’s Day that we’ll be spending together, but I’ve never asked you to be my Valentine. I don’t know why. I guess we tend to overlook those who are close to us, and take for granted those who love us most.

hearts

There is so much about you that I admire.

You love your husband deeply and truly, rivaled only by your love for your children. You are a loyal friend who enjoys sharing a good laugh (often with wine and/or chocolate) and is always willing to offer a shoulder to cry on (or more wine and chocolate) or be a sounding board for ideas, worries, or new life plans.

You are passionate about your work, and you have earned respect as you achieve your goals. While you continue to develop your career, you take time to mentor others and build broader platforms for success.

You have a strong belief in God, but you understand the different faiths (or lack thereof) of your friends.

You have learned (finally) to take care of yourself, even as you give so much of yourself to others. By nurturing and nourishing body, mind and spirit, you really are enjoying the best years of your life, and it shows in your confidence, your energy, and your smile.

I’m sorry that it had taken me so long to realize what a wonderful person you are.
I hope I’m not too late.

Will you be my Valentine?

** Thanks To Colleen at TheFitBee.com (Twitter: @Tryn2Bfit) for sharing the idea of writing Valentines to ourselves.

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