Standing On The Sidelines

There was a horrible moment at my son’s wrestling match last weekend when he suddenly stopped trying to escape from his opponent’s hold and laid down on the mat with a grimace on his face. The referee stopped the clock, his coach ran over to him, and then the trainer came over and started assessing him. From our vantage point in the bleachers it was clear that there was something wrong with his knee. It was hard to stand there watching, but that’s what parents are supposed to do.

After a few minutes our son got up, and everyone cheered. We were relieved, but then surprised to see the officials resetting the clock to finish out the match. While I was glad that my son felt good enough to keep competing, I was concerned that he might do more damage to his knee. Luckily it was the last match of the day, so he only had to push through for a few more minutes.  (He put up a good fight, but ended up losing that match, taking second place for the tournament.)

When the match was over, he followed protocol and shook hands with his opponent’s coaches, and then came off the mat to be greeted by his good friend and co-captain, who embraced him with a hug.  

That moment was so bittersweet! It was touching to witness the closeness of their friendship. I was proud of his friend for reaching out to him, and glad to see my son getting the support he so clearly wanted and needed. But I had to choke back tears as I realized that that was what he really wanted–support from his friend, not from his Mom!  

I know that part of parenting a teenager is letting go, but I am realizing that this means not only letting our kids make their own mistakes and learn their own lessons, but also letting them develop their own relationships and build their own support systems. (It seems that parenting “experts” focus on the former without reminding us of the latter.) As hard as it is to not be the one my son wants when he’s hurting, it’s wonderful to know that he has really good friends who will be there for him.

Of course, I know that my son still needs me. Later that night he did ask me which pain reliever to take, and he even agreed to wrap his knee with Arctic Ease. I will be the one who takes him to the orthopedist, and I will share in his heartache if he is told that he needs to take some time off from wrestling. But I will understand if he thinks that only his friends really understand what he is going through–no matter how wrong he is!

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December Damage Control

I have managed to maintain my “happy weight” through this much of 2011, and I would really like to be wearing my skinny jeans when we greet 2012. On the other hand, I am not in the mood to deprive myself of the Starbucks Peppermint Mochas, the homemade Christmas cookies, and the Peppermint Bark that I enjoy so much this time of year.

So, I have devised a three-part damage control plan to get me through December without collecting too many extra pounds along the way.

  1. Sweat Every Day. I will do at least 20 minutes of cardio every day.  While this fits easily in my usual routine, it gets harder in December when I lose my Saturdays to my son’s wrestling tournaments, my Sundays fill up with other holiday activities, and the cold, dark mornings make it tempting to hit the snooze button. I’ll be Tweeting my cardio with the #sweateveryday hashtag.
  2. Planks. I will do planks every day, starting with 60 second planks (three) and working up to 2 minute planks. What better way to keep my waistline in mind than working my core with planks? Maybe my abs will be too sore to reach for that platter of cookies. 😉 I’ll be Tweeting my planks with the #plankaday hashtag.
  3. Drink 64 Ounces Water. I will drink 64 ounces of water every day. This used to be easy, but my normal consumption has dropped off to about 48 ounces, and sometimes I don’t drink any water at all once I get home from work. I know that keeping hydrated will make me feel better and help me “just say no” to the not-worth-it, store-bought holiday fare that often is served at holiday parties. I will be tracking my water consumption with my Waterlogged App.

Waterlogged Version 1.3.5 IPA App iPod Touch iPhone iPad

I will be Tweeting other healthy choices under the #Back2Basics hashtag, inspired by Colleen’s Back To Basics challenge.

Do you have a damage control plan for December?

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Advent: How Are You Getting Ready?

Today is the second Sunday of Advent. In the Christian church calendar, Advent is the “season” when we get ready for Christmas. In most Christian traditions, Advent has a dual meaning: we remember the first Christmas when Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and the three kings awaited and rejoiced at the birth of Christ, while we also await and prepare for Jesus’ promised return.

Christmas Wreath Clipart

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In the second week of Advent, we focus on preparing for Jesus’ arrival. That always brings this song to mind:

Once I shake off images of men with long hair or Afros and women in long flowing skirts dancing around the stage, I think about what it would mean to really get ready for Jesus.

When I was in high school, one of my good friends had a stay-at-home mom (she was a “housewife” back then) and a father who was a diplomat who worked long hours at a stressful job. Part of their daily routine was to “get ready for Papa to come home.” That meant picking up the sweaters and jackets that were cast off in the entryway, collecting the bookbags that were strewn around the family room, and setting the table for dinner.  I think about this when I think about preparing for Jesus.

When my daughter is coming home from college, I clean up her room, stock the pantry with her favorite snacks, and make plans for a family dinner at one of her favorite restaurants. I think about this when I think about preparing for Jesus.

When friends are coming over, we clean the house, we sweep the front walk, we buy flowers for the table. I think about this when I think about preparing for Jesus.

If I were going to welcome Jesus like an out-of-town guest, what would I do to get ready for his arrival? I know some faiths emphasize “repenting” to get ready for the Second Coming, but that’s a personal focus.  What I am talking about is what I can do to make the world a place that Jesus would want to return to.

What comes to mind is loving my neighbor more (Matthew 22:37-40), doing more to care for the hungry, the sick, the poor, and the imprisoned (Matthew 25: 35-40), and looking for opportunities to do my Master’s will while He is away (Luke 12: 35-48). And that brings this song to mind:

How are you getting ready?

Prayer for the second week of Advent
As we plan and make decisions, God be our way.
As we learn and ask questions, God be our truth.
As we grow and change, God be our life.
Amen.

(Did you miss my post on the first week of Advent?)

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Race Recap: Hot Chocolate 15K Review

How do you write about a race that has Twitter and Facebook blowing up with complaints? Here’s my attempt at a balanced Hot Chocolate 15K review.

  • I am glad that I kept my expectations low for a new race on a new course by an organization new to the area.
  • I am grateful to my friend who drove me and remained calm and in good spirits even after it became clear that she was not going to make it to the start for the 5k.
  • I am glad that I made it to the start and have a race recap to write.

Six Things That Sucked

  1. Logistics–Race Traffic. We sat in traffic for 90 minutes on a 1.5 mile-long bridge and still didn’t make it to the exit, so I hopped out of the car and joined the other passenger-runners who decided to jog the rest of the way on the shoulder. Yes, we knew there would be traffic. Yes, we allowed plenty of time. No, there were not enough people directing traffic and keeping things moving at the venue. Perhaps letting 20,000 people sign up for a race at a venue with one entry point and no public transportation was not the best idea.
  2. Logistics–Delayed Start. The traffic was so bad that the race organizers decided to delay the start. They announced a 15 minute delay, but the 15K actually was delayed for a full hour. Since I was in the car until 7:45 and had worn a big throw-away sweatshirt, I was fine, but the people who had gotten there early had a long wait in 30-degree weather.
  3. Logistics–5K/10K. It was curious that the 5K started first, but it started in a different direction, so we figured the organizers knew what they were doing. One reason the 15K started so late is because they were waiting for the 5K course to thin out, because the courses overlapped after the first 5 miles of the 15K. (The 5K also looped in the opposite direction, so the early 15K runners crossed paths with the 5K finishers–I’m not sure that makes sense either.)
  4. The Course. I knew about the hills. I trained for the hills. I am not complaining about the hills. (But did you really have to have the finish at the end of a long steep hill?) The first six miles was an out-and-back route along the shoulder and two right lanes of a six-lane divided road. There’s a reason this road has three lanes in each direction. Cutting that down to one lane on a Saturday morning is bad enough. Extending that closure for over an hour because of the delayed race start makes it worse. Instead of supporters lining the course, we had a long line of angry people stuck in traffic wondering why the f*ck we had the right to screw up their mornings. Not to mention the fumes from the idling trucks that we were side-by-side with us we ran the “back” leg uphill. And I’m still trying to get the sight of that roadkill out of my mind.
  5. The 5K Split. This doesn’t rise to the level of sucking, but the timing mats for the 5K split were on the right, so you crossed them on the “out” leg even though you didn’t hit 5K until the “back” leg. D’oh.
  6. The Post-Race Food. I knew there was going to be hot chocolate and chocolate fondue at the finish, but I didn’t know that’s all there would be. For the fondue, you were given a plastic tray with some food to dip in the ladle-full of chocolate you were served. The most nourishing food was a half of a banana and a pretzel rod, so I ate that, but my stomach could have used the rest of that banana or a bagel. The hot chocolate was good–don’t get me wrong–but I drank it fearing the consequences of dumping that into a mostly-empty, post-race stomach.

Six Things That Were Super

  1. My training. I knew about the hills. I trained for the hills. I killed the hills.
  2. My pre-race fueling. Since I don’t usually eat much before my training runs, I am still trying to figure out what to eat before a race. Today I had a chocolate protein shake at home and then most of a peanut butter and honey sandwich on whole wheat bread in the car. (I was glad to have the rest to eat on the way home!) That was enough to sustain me through the traffic, the long wait to start, and the hilly 15K.
  3. My gear. I had a hard time deciding what to wear to stay warm until race time, and ended up with just a big sweatshirt over my long-sleeve tech shirt, CWX compression shorts, Zensah calf sleeves, light-weight Mizuno gloves and an Asics headband for my ears under my cap. Between the late start and the sun, that was enough. (I kept the sweatshirt on until just before the start, and draped it over a barricade–I hope they really did collect the cast-offs for charity.) I carried a disposable bottle of water to see if not having the fuel belt around my waist was any easier on my stomach (maybe that did help because I have not had tummy troubles today–another positive!) and held on to it until the last 3/4 mile. I had my iPhone so I could rendez-vous with my friend at the end, but I decided not to listen to music while I ran because I had drained the battery doing so much surfing on Facebook and Twitter before the start. (There were a few strectches when I missed my tunes, but overall it was okay.) As always, I wore my Garmin and checked it frequently to monitor and adjust my pace.
  4. Going to the race with a friend. We got to do a lot of catching up while sitting in traffic. If I had been alone I would have been fuming, but we did a lot of laughing.
  5. Starting at the start. I went through the process to get an assigned corral, and ended up with Corral A based on my GW Parkway Classic time. I was surprised at how un-crowded Corral A was, and ended up being able to be right at the start. Yes, I was passed by many runners during the first mile. Yes, that first mile was too fast. But, I did not get stuck in any hairpin curve logjams like I did at the Army Ten Miler.
  6. My pacing. I kept the course elevation profile in mind as I ran. I knew I had started out fast, but I didn’t realize how fast until I hit the first mile split clock at under 8:00 minutes (my Garmin was behind so my first full mile was not quite that fast). I slowed down, and held back for the long 3 mile stretch downhill, knowing that I would be turning around and going back up again! There was one other long, steep climb after mile 6 , and then the evil steep climb to the finish. That was hard. People who had been keeping a good pace had to stop and walk, but I kept chugging along and finished strong.

Garmin Data:
Total Distance: 9.1 miles
Total Time: 1:18:34 (Avg. Pace 8:38 min/mile)
Split Times: 8:15, 8:19, 8:22, 8:41, 9:02, 8:42, 9:01, 8:29, 8:53

Race Results: 100th out of 946 in my age group! 🙂

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Countdown To The Hot Chocolate 15K–This Is It!

I spent my last week before the Hot Chocolate 15K grateful that I decided to focus my training on hills, especially after this elevation profile was posted on the race website.

Hello! Miles 3 through 6 are one long climb! And look at the finish! 

Monday
Neighborhood Run: 5.1 miles, 42 minutes

Tuesday (E-Z Incline Program On TM)
Elliptical Warm-Up (20 min)
Full Body Weights Routine (including lunges, squats, leg lifts)

Wednesday
Hilly Neighborhood Run (new route): 5.3 miles, 48 minutes

Thursday (starting my quasi-taper)
Elliptical Warm-Up (20 min)
Rodney Yee Standing Program (20 min)
Planks: 3 X 60 seconds 
I started my Twitter-inspired plan for December : #sweateveryday, #plankaday and #back2basics      

Friday
Elliptical Warm-Up (20 min)
Rodney Yee Twists Program (20 min)
Planks: 3 X 60 seconds

I went to the expo to get my race bib and my windbreaker jacket, and also picked up this ceramic mug. I just couldn’t resist the “Will Run For Chocolate” logo.

And I love the personalized bib, although my husband thinks they should call it
the “Hot Coco” race. 🙂

I know a few bloggers who are doing either the 15K or the 5K, but it’s going to be so crowded, I’m not sure if I’ll be able to find anyone. If you’re racing this weekend, good luck! And, if you finish before I do, save me some chocolate!

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