My Dog Is My Role Model

If you’ve seen this slogan on Facebook or Pinterest you may wonder how my dog can be my role model.

The thing is, my dog is not motivated by food–unless it’s a freshly baked apple pie!

It took us several tries to find “treats” that we could use as positive reinforcement for training. Sometimes when we offered her a run-of-the-mill dog biscuit after a session of sit-shake-down-roll over, she just wasn’t interested. One morning my husband wasn’t sure that I’d fed her before I went out for my run, so he gave her breakfast. Instead of gobbling up her kibble, she wasn’t interested–because I had fed her, so she wasn’t hungry.

Now, when it is meal time, she won’t let you forget it. She gets frisky, nudges me, and leaps excitedly to the kitchen. But what she really wants any time of the day or night is to go for a walk.

As soon as my alarm goes off, her tail starts wagging. She even brings me my shoes to help me get ready faster.


Whenever I refill my water bottle, she hears the quiet sound of the refrigerator water dispenser and comes running, thinking that it’s time for a walk.

She always wants to go for a walk, even if we’ve just been out.

I am not a dog, but my dog is a good role model for how I should reward myself, refresh my mind and my body, and unwind after a stressful day. Even a short walk around the block is enough to clear my head, stretch my legs, and put me in a better mood.

Would your pet be a good role model?

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Out Foxed

Let me start by saying that I officially live in the city of Alexandria. My neighborhood is tucked between busy roads (two lanes in each direction, traffic lights at most intersections), and within a mile or so of several highways (the yellow lines on this Google map).

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(Note to stalkers: I don’t live at the A, that’s just where Google pinned Alexandria)

(Or maybe I should say I do live at the A to throw any stalkers off?)

Apparently, the narrow strip of “woods” that border one edge our neighborhood is hospitable enough for a fox to make a home there. I first saw this fox a few weeks ago, when I was taking Tiger Lilly out for her o’dark-thirty morning walk. Tiger Lilly noticed it first–her behavior told me that we were not alone!

(The fox looks like this, our neighborhood does not have snow!)

I’ve seen the fox a few times since then. Usually it trots along the sidewalk on the other side of the street from us and then disappears behind a house, back into the woods. A few weeks ago it followed us for longer than usual, but still left us when we turned a corner.

This weekend was different. Tiger Lilly alerted to the fox at a place where the fox doesn’t usually follow us. I didn’t think it would keep following us further from the woods, so I encouraged Tiger Lilly to keep walking. The fox crossed over to our side of the street and kept approaching! Tiger Lilly barked, but that didn’t scare it away. I yelled a sharp “Hey!” and while it stopped, it didn’t retreat.

(The fox was stalking me like this.)

I was getting scared. I was about 1/2 mile from my house and knew I couldn’t out-run a fox. I looked for houses with lights on, but my neighborhood is pretty sleepy at o’dark-thirty on a weekend. I tried taking evasive tactics–zig-zagging back and forth to different sides of the street and walking/jogging/running while still trying to keep an eye on the fox.

I made it most of the way back to my street, but when I hit a dark corner of my neighborhood–a stretch a few houses long without street lights and no porch lights on–I couldn’t tell where the fox was and I was afraid to keep going. I saw the lights of someone opening their garage, ran over, and explained my predicament. The woman turned her porch lights on, but I still couldn’t see the fox. I decided that the lights and noise of her car might scare the fox away, so I just waited until she left. That seemed to work, and we made it the rest of the way home without seeing the fox again.

I really don’t know what to do about this fox. I called Animal Control, and the officer said that it is normal for a fox to “stalk” and to not be afraid of a dog on a leash. He said I should make noise, and suggested I use an air horn, but I’m not sure my neighbors would appreciate that in the pre-dawn hours. He also said that it’s very rare for a fox to attack a person, but that doesn’t give me much peace of mind.

I don’t feel safe walking Tiger Lilly in the dark knowing that fox is out there. I can rearrange my morning routine and do my workout before I walk Tiger Lilly, but there will come a time later this winter when I will need to walk Tiger Lilly in the dark in order to get to work on time.

Do you have any ideas?

Have you had any unwelcome encounters with wildlife?

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Wordless Wednesday (The Happy Happy Edition)

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Coming Full Circle To The Thanksgiving Table

I was going to write about how I have come full circle on my approach to Thanksgiving.

I no longer try to make “lighter” versions of family favorites, I will not be measuring my servings of stuffing and cranberry sauce, and I certainly won’t try to keep track of all the calories that I will consume on Thanksgiving Day and–let’s face it–the days after, until the last sliver of pie is gone!

But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that I am not approaching Thanksgiving in same the way that I used to in my “before” days, when the holiday was not complete without a stomach ache and a carb-induced coma on the couch.

While I may have gone around and around, the path I’ve taken is more of a spiral than a circle, because I haven’t ended up at the same place where I started.

This Thanksgiving, I will start my day with exercise–a dog walk and either a short run or my weights routine. I won’t be doing this to preemptively burn calories, but because that is how I like to start every day.

I will eat lightly throughout the day, not to save calories, but so I will be hungry for the delicious food that will be on the table.

When it’s time for dinner, I will mindfully enjoy the special holiday foods, but I will be selective. Instead of eating everything in sight, I will focus on my favorites and skip those that I can have any time.  (That means more stuffing and less mashed potatoes!)

When I am full, I will stop eating–at least until it’s time for dessert. I have learned that I don’t enjoy that over-stuffed feeling and that I really can have more tomorrow.

At the end of the night, I won’t regret having eaten too much (even if I have), because I know that I will get back to my normal routine soon enough–especially if I send most of the leftovers home with my guests.

How do you approach Thanksgiving?

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My Birthday In Pictures

Birthday Love

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Birthday Cupcakes from Sprinkles

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Birthday Cupcakes Enjoyed At Work

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Birthday Flowers From Mom

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Birthday Evening At Home

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How do you celebrate your birthday?

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